Who Am I

When No One's

Around?

Who Am I When No One’s Around is Ruth Grube’s debut children’s book—a playful yet powerful story that helps kids understand the value of integrity. With rhyming verses, charming animal characters, and a message that gently nudges children to make good choices even when no one is watching, this book opens the door to meaningful conversations at home and in the classroom.

Meet Four New Friends-

Cham, Bear, Snail, and Raccoon

Meet a thoughtful bear, a clever chameleon, a curious raccoon, and a steady snail—four friends who each face a moment of decision when no one else is watching. As they navigate everyday choices with honesty and heart, these lovable characters help children see that integrity isn’t about being perfect—it’s about listening to what’s right inside.

Meet the Author

Dr. Ruth Grube

Dr. Ruth Grube is a lifelong educator, curriculum specialist, and passionate advocate for helping children grow not just academically, but in character and heart. With over two decades of experience in public education and a doctorate in instructional leadership, Ruth brings both wisdom and warmth to everything she creates. Who Am I When No One’s Around is her debut children’s book—a project born from her deep belief that integrity begins in the small, everyday choices children make. Ruth combines her love for storytelling, child development, and values-based learning to help families and classrooms nurture kids who do what’s right… even when no one’s watching.

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FAQs

Parent or Educator with Questions?

What age is this book best for?

Who Am I When No One’s Around is ideal for children ages 5–9. The reading level is around 2nd grade, but the message of integrity is meaningful for a wide range of ages.

Is this book faith-based?

While not explicitly religious, the book is rooted in timeless values like honesty, integrity, and character. It’s a beautiful fit for Christian families, schools, and ministries, as well as those that are not specifically faith-based.

What’s the main lesson of the book?

The story encourages children to do what’s right even when no one is watching—teaching that integrity starts in the heart and grows with each small choice.

Who are the characters in the story?

Children will meet a bear, chameleon, raccoon, and snail—each facing a decision about doing what’s right. Their unique personalities and gentle dilemmas make the story both fun and meaningful.

Can this book be used in classrooms or groups?

Yes! Teachers, counselors, and group leaders love using this book to spark discussions about personal responsibility, honesty, and character development.

Are there any bonus resources?

Yes! A free downloadable activity guide and “Integrity Jar Challenge” are available to help parents and educators continue the conversation beyond the book.

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